How to Stop a Fight Before It Spirals

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Arguments aren't the problem.
The way we handle them is.
The next time a disagreement starts to escalate, remember PAUSE:
P – Pause before reacting.
A – Acknowledge the emotion.
U – Understand before defending.
S – Stay on one topic.
E – End as teammates, not opponents.
Healthy couples don't avoid conflict.
They learn how to protect the relationship while working through it.
20 Jul 5AM English South Africa Music Commentary · Society & Culture

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