Namibia Future Media Nova 1035 - Karlien on Nova

Stop Chasing and Start Choosing

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So many people spend their dating lives chasing...
Chasing attention.
Chasing reassurance.
Chasing clarity.
Chasing people who aren't fully choosing them.
But one of the biggest signs of emotional growth is when you stop asking,
"How do I get them to choose me?"
and start asking,
"Would I choose this relationship if nothing changed?"
1 Jul 5AM English South Africa Music Commentary · Society & Culture

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