
Can Joy Be Learned? The Surprising Truth About Positive People
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We've all met someone who seems to light up every room they walk into.
The person who is warm, optimistic, energetic and genuinely happy to be alive.
But are people like that simply born that way, or is joy actually something we can practice?
In this episode, I sit down with Jeannie D (Bekker, née de Gouveia), someone I've known for years and whose energy has always fascinated me. No matter where I've encountered her, she consistently shows up with warmth, enthusiasm and an incredible ability to make people feel seen. So I wanted to understand why.
Together, we unpack the idea that happiness isn't something that happens to us - it's something we actively create.
We explore resilience, positivity, energy management, difficult seasons, personal responsibility and why joy might be far more of a daily practice than most people realise.
This conversation is filled with simple but powerful reminders that happiness isn't found in perfect circumstances.
It's found in the choices we make every day.
If you've been feeling overwhelmed, exhausted or disconnected lately, this episode offers a refreshing reminder that joy doesn't have to be complicated.
Sometimes it's simply a choice to keep looking for the good.
The person who is warm, optimistic, energetic and genuinely happy to be alive.
But are people like that simply born that way, or is joy actually something we can practice?
In this episode, I sit down with Jeannie D (Bekker, née de Gouveia), someone I've known for years and whose energy has always fascinated me. No matter where I've encountered her, she consistently shows up with warmth, enthusiasm and an incredible ability to make people feel seen. So I wanted to understand why.
Together, we unpack the idea that happiness isn't something that happens to us - it's something we actively create.
We explore resilience, positivity, energy management, difficult seasons, personal responsibility and why joy might be far more of a daily practice than most people realise.
This conversation is filled with simple but powerful reminders that happiness isn't found in perfect circumstances.
It's found in the choices we make every day.
If you've been feeling overwhelmed, exhausted or disconnected lately, this episode offers a refreshing reminder that joy doesn't have to be complicated.
Sometimes it's simply a choice to keep looking for the good.

