Why did you lie?

Loading player...
There is something that’s been sitting with me for a while (add context on what it is), and I didn’t realise how heavy it was until I tried to put words to it. We talk about honesty like it’s a straight line, like you either tell the truth or you don’t, but real life doesn’t work like that. Sometimes the truth feels like it’s going to cost you peace, relationships, or stability. And that’s where the lie creeps in. Not because you’re trying to deceive, but because you’re trying to survive a moment you’re not ready for.

This is where I want to pause us for a second, because what you’re saying is something a lot of people are quietly living with. You’re not talking about lying to hurt someone; you’re talking about lying to manage a situation. So let me ask you this: when you chose not to tell the truth, was it fear that drove it, or was it the belief that the truth would cause more damage than the lie?

You shared why you lied, and this is how it went down...
21 Jan English South Africa Society & Culture · Personal Journals

Other recent episodes

Great Drive Debate | Who Should Carry the Burden of Women’s Safety?

Following the deaths of several women in and around Kempton Park, police have urged women to take extra precautions. But today’s Great Drive Debate asked: Who should carry the burden of safety? Should women continue to change their behaviour to stay safe, or should more focus be placed on raising…
15 Sep 9 min

Yoh… I’m Actually an Adult?! 😂 | When Did You Realise?

Nobody sends you an email to say you’re officially an adult. 😂 One day you’re carefree, the next you’re paying bills, comparing grocery prices and getting excited about household appliances. Stacey and J Sbu asked KZN: When did you realise you’re officially an adult? From paying your first bill to…
14 Sep 9 min

How Much Does Money Matter When You’re Deciding to Say “I Do”?

This week’s confession has us asking a big relationship question: How much does money matter when you’re deciding whether to get married? One man says his girlfriend turned down his proposal because she couldn’t see a future without a better lifestyle even though he had secretly won six figures in…
10 Sep 8 min

Who’s Living Like the Cost-of-Living Crisis Doesn’t Exist?

There’s always ONE person in the household who clearly didn’t get the memo about the cost-of-living crisis! While everyone else is budgeting, cutting back and watching every cent, they’re still ordering takeaways, buying things they don’t need, taking ridiculously long showers or casually adding things to the shopping trolley. J…
9 Sep 6 min