The prison of living to impress other people.

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Dr. Ray Legodi welcomes Bishop T. Mthimkhulu and Pastor T. Skhosana to the studio for a conversation on "The Prison of Living to Impress Other People." They discuss how constantly trying to gain approval from others can distract and derail individuals from living out their true purpose. The conversation highlights that seeking validation often leads to anxiety, loss of identity, and missed opportunities for authentic growth. They emphasize the importance of self-awareness, aligning with personal values, and finding confidence in one’s divine calling rather than external opinions. The discussion encourages listeners to break free from the pressure to impress, focus on their unique path, and remain steadfast in fulfilling their own purpose.
31 Jul 2025 English South Africa Religion & Spirituality · Society & Culture

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