The Power of the 13th Voice: Communication and Curiosity in Supporting Children

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In this episode of The Lauren Edmonds Podcast, Lauren explores the concept of the "13th voice"—the idea that people often need to hear something multiple times and from different perspectives before they are ready to truly understand and embrace it. Drawing on her experience as the owner of a special needs school in Johannesburg, Lauren highlights how this principle applies to parenting, education, and supporting children with remedial or special needs.

Lauren discusses the delicate balance between sharing observations about a child and avoiding overly definitive statements. She emphasizes the importance of speaking up with curiosity and kindness while fostering open communication among educators, therapists, and parents. By creating a network of voices and perspectives, we can help children and their families unlock new possibilities and discover paths forward.

Through thoughtful anecdotes and insights, Lauren encourages listeners to embrace curiosity, be patient, and understand the transformative power of consistent, compassionate communication. This episode is a must-listen for anyone passionate about fostering growth and understanding in children.
3 Feb 2025 English South Africa Education · Self-Improvement

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